Whore relationships have always intrigued me. I wish I were a psychologist and could study this relationship dynamic between men & women. This is by no means an “all women do this…” statement or an “all men don’t do this” statement. This is a pure uneducated generalization that seems to happen quite frequently.
A lot of women seem to be attracted to whores. This attraction surpasses just physical lust and begins to include wanting to “have him” – where having him is more than just lust & sex but a real relationship where he is “yours”. A lot of men on the other hand, steer clear of ever getting seriously involved with a known slut. The trend is mind boggling. Even current culture accepts this discrepancy; the saying is “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife…” but I haven’t heard “you can’t turn a hoe into a husband,” thereby leaving the door open that women think they can.
I have female friends who have started to “get to know” a guy who is currently in a “bad relationship” (or so he says) and then dated him & when he finally cheated on them they were amazed and shocked. I always ask wasn’t he cheating on someone else when you got him? For guys we understand that the more whorish we are, for the most part, the more women we attract & that includes the so-called “quality” ones also. Some women will date a whore & proudly introduce this scoundrel to everyone and think that she has finally found her man. Wow.
Guys are just the opposite. Yes we want whores for sex only, but we are speaking about actually dating this person & getting into something similar to serious. Most men wouldn’t be caught dead bringing a whore over for approval from his male friends. Hoes are not housewives and normally we treat them as such.
I’ve heard some women say that it’s because no women wants a man that others find unattractive. That may be true but that is a far cry from having a man that all your friends have dated/slept with. Men who are looking for more than a booty call usually steer clear of the women that more than a couple of his partners can provide a reference of her previous activities. Most men don’t want to parade a whore around as their own. Some women seem to find the idea exciting and I’m curious why is that.
And could this difference be a puzzle to why women think men are truly attracted to whores because many of them are attracted to male whores? Very interesting…..
A lot of women seem to be attracted to whores. This attraction surpasses just physical lust and begins to include wanting to “have him” – where having him is more than just lust & sex but a real relationship where he is “yours”. A lot of men on the other hand, steer clear of ever getting seriously involved with a known slut. The trend is mind boggling. Even current culture accepts this discrepancy; the saying is “you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife…” but I haven’t heard “you can’t turn a hoe into a husband,” thereby leaving the door open that women think they can.
I have female friends who have started to “get to know” a guy who is currently in a “bad relationship” (or so he says) and then dated him & when he finally cheated on them they were amazed and shocked. I always ask wasn’t he cheating on someone else when you got him? For guys we understand that the more whorish we are, for the most part, the more women we attract & that includes the so-called “quality” ones also. Some women will date a whore & proudly introduce this scoundrel to everyone and think that she has finally found her man. Wow.
Guys are just the opposite. Yes we want whores for sex only, but we are speaking about actually dating this person & getting into something similar to serious. Most men wouldn’t be caught dead bringing a whore over for approval from his male friends. Hoes are not housewives and normally we treat them as such.
I’ve heard some women say that it’s because no women wants a man that others find unattractive. That may be true but that is a far cry from having a man that all your friends have dated/slept with. Men who are looking for more than a booty call usually steer clear of the women that more than a couple of his partners can provide a reference of her previous activities. Most men don’t want to parade a whore around as their own. Some women seem to find the idea exciting and I’m curious why is that.
And could this difference be a puzzle to why women think men are truly attracted to whores because many of them are attracted to male whores? Very interesting…..
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